Sometime in our lives most of us get sex-crazy. Suddenly we are not content with what we've done, and we search eagerly for new sexual opportunities. We think "virginity: what's the big deal?" We become so curious about sex we don't care what happens; we just want to find what it's all about.

An older boyfriend or girlfriend can be great: he or she is more developed physically, more mature, wealthier (maybe), he or she can drive... Unfortunately, older boyfriends and girlfriends are usually looking for just one thing: sex, and they're less hesitant than their younger counterparts to get it.

Some people use sex to rebel. They think by using their bodies as sexual weapons, they can gain power. Notching their belts like the bad boys, they are so cool, throwing off the shackles of their parents, churches, and indeed the entire institution of society. Or so they think.

This is the oldest line in the book. Of course people (especially guys) say this: over the years tricksters have learned by saying something "sweet" (I won't do anything you don't want me to; I love you so much I want to do this with you), they actually have a better chance of getting sex. However, this doesn't mean they care any more than those

Sometimes your crush doesn't feel for you, or care as much as you do for him or her. It's tempting to get sexual to make him/her more interested. Since he/she's your crush, you're fantasizing anyway, and it's better to have him/her want you sexually than not to want you at all, right?