my life in a relationship

now thiers is this guy i am dating for a while and then thier is this guy that i liked for 5 to6 months even before i met my boyfriend. I was talking to my cuz and she said she thinks i falling along time ago for this other boy but am not letting myself know that becuase of my boyfriend now. I think its true. how do I brake up with someone that i care for so much. and if i do then do i even get the other guy

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You can break up, but...

If you feel like you want to be with a different guy, you should break up with him. Even if it hurts him, staying with him will only hurt more. After all, you don't ever want him to find out that you were dating him only because you pitied him, or you felt sorry for him. That will hurt a lot!

So, you should break up. But if you start dating the other guy right away, well, that will also hurt him a lot, probably. It's a tough call. But if you search your heart, you can probably find the answer.

Jude | Fri, 05/23/2008 - 20:27