WE STILL LOVE EACHOTHER
Well its been a while since my ex boyfriend broke up.
Supoosly its my fault becaus eof my attitude,not only that i cutt him off,and pciekd my friends over him.
Its hard for me though because eh was my first and i was with him as well.
We have been together for 3 yrs and its hurts really bad.
I cant focus in school peeople tell me not to give up because we really have true love.
Though sometimes i try to find a way to talk to him.
I WE STILL LOVE EACHOTHER MORE THAN LIFE ITS SELF AND ALL I WANT IS HIM BACK IN MY LIFE BECAUSE HONETSLY HES PRACTICLLY THE ONLY THING I HAVE.
he still tells me he loves me though he tries not to say it lol but he dose.
I want to change can anybody help me please.
As well my mother tries to put chit in my head saying he probly has a new girl friend but its not true i know it how can i get him back please help me out its the not first time this happends more than 3 times though we love eachother.
HELP PLEASE??
P.S.
WE UNDERSTAND EACHOTHER MORE THAN ANYONE IS THIS WORLD BUT NO MATTER WHAT AM NOT GIVING UP NEVE RBECAUSE I ACTULLY WANT HIM BACK HES AMAZING :)
I LOVE YOU BEN MARTIN GARCIA
:)
XOXXOXOX
HELP PLEASE *TEARS*
You're not ready to get him back
I'll hit you with the worst part first: you're not ready to have a relationship in your life again right now. Even if he loves you more than anything, and you him, it won't work until you get some space between you.
Of course, space between you is the exact opposite of what you want right now. And breaking up hurts, and being single when you love someone sucks, and so on, and so on.
But if things were so perfect, why'd you break up? How do you know this next time will be different? Sure, you *feel* it will be different, but do you really *know* that?
If you really do both love each other as much as you say you do, you'll end up together again-- I don't doubt that. But is "getting him back" right now the best thing to do?
Part of having a successful relationship is being able to concentrate on other things and live your life when the other person isn't around. It doesn't sound like you can do that right now when he's not around.
This is a big problem, because if you can't do that, you're going to have serious trouble just hanging on to a relationship, let alone making it better.
So what do you need to do? Take some time away from him-- stay broken up for awhile. Do your best to get your life in order before you jump back into a relationship-- I 'd say at least one month, and maybe two or three.
Then, if you can get things back under control, and if you and he still feel the same way (which if your love is true, you will), then get back together.
But if you do it right away, I just fear you'll end up back in the same situation in a few more months.