fridgetness?
every relationship i've been in i've always been shy/fridget. In the kissing type of way, I can hug guys but thats all really and cheek i guess too. but when it comes to kissing, it would never happen. I've had one proper kiss before but that was the most embarrassing day ever, apparently i "tasted bad" and i bit his tongue! ever since that ive been too afraid to even try again, incase i muck up or have really bad breath or something. I also have no idea how to overcome my shyness and fridget ness with guys!! its different if im friends with a guy but if its boyfriend type i become very shy/fridget/uncomfortable. ive been like this for ages please help me!!
Just try not to worry
If you're worried about your breath, just make sure you brush your teeth, take a breath mint or two if necessary, and avoid eating anything with garlic when you're out on a date.
Being shy is hard to overcome. Part of it is, you're going to have to put yourself out there, and it's going to feel a little awkward. But, even though it's awkward, you have to project confidence, or it won't work. It's sort of a chicken and egg problem: you don't have confidence, but to get the confidence, you need to show you have confidence to others.
Also, it really depends on the guys you're with. Some guys (like the one you were with before, apparently) are experts at tearing girls apart. But even if someone says something really hurtful, you have to pick yourself back up, dust yourself off, and get back out there. We all take hits once in awhile.
Part of it is, if you don't feel safe/comfortable with the guy, you probably will be nervous/fidgety. In that case, it's best to ask yourself why you're dating a guy you don't feel safe/comfortable with. That could be the real problem.