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Dear experts,

I have a problem to discuss and I need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me everyday in classroom. I feel like he's attracted by from me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as teacher, I have NO relationship with him and never ever will be. I couldn't tell this anyone because I'm afraid to tell. He hasn't done anything inappropriate to me like (molesting,etc). This problem really bothers me. Please help me, what should I do? Should I report him?

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Are you sure he's staring at you?

First, I have to remind you that I am not an expert, and if this problem gets worse, you should talk to one of your parents or a guidance counselor at your school-- someone who has professional training to help you.

Are you sure he's staring at you, and not just off into space? Does he say (or has he said) anything appropriate to you? Has he ever touched you? If so, you definitely need to talk to one of your parents or a guidance counselor immediately.

But if not, what makes you so sure he's looking at you? Does he actually make eye contact? Why do you feel he's attracted to you?

Since telling someone could ruin his career, it's something you should do only if you're sure he's done something inappropriate. If you're not sure, consider talking to a guidance counselor at your school. It's usually not as hard as you think to get a hold of one (if you haven't done so before).

Jude | Mon, 01/28/2008 - 18:56

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I'm sorry,I didn't know that you were not expert. Well he hasn't molested me or act inappropriately around me. I just changed my class I don't see him anymore. Well definetly he makes eye contant with me. He stares at me alot, I can see he's attracted from me. Thank God I don't see him anymore if he will do something inappropriately I would report him to school. Before I can see he just stares at me. But I'm not worried anymore I changed my class. But thank you so much for answering my question!

Anonymous (not verified) | Tue, 01/29/2008 - 01:19