This is the oldest line in the book. Of course people (especially guys) say this: over the years tricksters have learned by saying something "sweet" (I won't do anything you don't want me to; I love you so much I want to do this with you), they actually have a better chance of getting sex. However, this doesn't mean they care any more than those who simply demand it; they are just deceptive. Don't fall for it.

People who really respect you don't need to say so. They may reassure you when you're feeling down, but they won't push you sexually until you say "no" and then begin pressuring you again a few minutes later. They won't say "I love you" and then try to get their hands up your shirt (or down your pants).

Make everyone wait: the ones who truly care will stay regardless, and those looking only for a sexual "quick fix" will soon be gone. You deserve better than lying slime, but it's up to you to insist on that.