So there's someone you've been crushing on for quite some time. You have a feeling the person might like you, but you're not sure. You might be waiting for them to ask you out. But why wait? Just ask yourself!
Many people are shy-- chances are, you and your crush are both in the same situation. You've given some signs; you've noticed some signs. But maybe the other person isn't catching on. It's time to speak up.
Of course, it's hard to take that first step. You have to ask yourself: is it worth the risk? Only you can answer that.
It's especially hard when it's someone you've been friends with for a long time. You don't want to ruin the friendship. And if you ask the person out, well, things could go wrong. But what's the worst that could happen? If you've been friends for a long time, it's very rare to completely stop being friends because-- what? you like the other person. And of course, if the other person has feelings, too... Well, it could be quite a great combination.
How do you ask? It can be dramatic; it can be simple. Remember though-- less is often more. If you plan too hard you're only going to be disappointed. Just do what you're comfortable with. If you're too embarrassed, or don't trust your voice, write a note-- but give it in person (you don't have to stay around for it to be read, though). Don't call or use e-mail, though; it's too impersonal.
Popping the question can be scary, but if you already know the person-- and you have taken time to get to know your crush, right?-- you should have some idea of whether your feelings are reciprocated. Now it's time to confirm.
At least start a conversation-- that's not too hard. Say "Hi", ask how the day is going-- if you can't think of anything, ask for help with your homework! Just do something-- start talking-- and take your time.
You may find someone you thought was really cute is actually very disagreable. But that's good-- you've saved yourself a lot of trouble! You didn't get rejected; you don't have any emotional pain-- and, now that you've approached your crush and realized he/she's not what you thought, your feelings will probably go away pretty quick.
Do you want to look back on life and wonder "What could have been?" Of course not! If you're good friends, ask away, and if not, get to know the person better-- but don't just sit there!