The Secret: How, Really, to Get Him/Her to Like You

  • How can I get my crush to fall madly in love with me?
  • Is there a way I can guarantee success?
  • How do the people who always seem to have somebody special do it?

What is the secret? The secret is:

  • fairly simple
  • something anyone can do
  • guaranteed to attract someone who likes you for who you are
  • not really a bunch of marketing hype

The beauty of this secret is that it can be applied by anyone, anywhere, in any situation. But it takes a lot of time and work.

I know you want an easy way. But if there was an easy way, someone would have found it by now and they'd be telling everybody, and everybody would be doing it. There is no easy way.

What is this incredible secret? I bet you think it's really lame. The secret is to be yourself.

It doesn't seem to be a secret at all, really. But we often forget that honesty is a huge turn-on. Do you want somebody who likes you because you're trying to be someone else? Heck no-- you want someone who likes you for who you are!

Do you want to be fake? Do you want someone to fall in love with you, then realize you're not the one he or she fell in love with-- the person fell in love with whoever you were pretending to be?

There is no way to dress, act, talk, or walk except your own. Don't settle for someone else's version of your life! Get the real deal.

Live the life you've always wanted! Ever thought it would be nice to have somebody who was _________? You can! Stop listening to the people that shoot you down and start living life your way.

Ever wanted to try something, but never could because someone said it was stupid or you'd never be good at it? Forget them! If you want to try something new-- something you-- go for it!

Frustrated by what somebody "expects" from you? Lose them! Be who you are-- do what you want-- and let them like or dislike you for that.

But "being yourself" isn't easy.